When it comes to the astrology of love and sex, it’s all about Venus and Mars. These two planets can tell you everything you need to know about having a satisfying sex life. Venus describes one’s approaches in how a relationship will lead to sex. Venus is your emotional needs and your social style. Are you a shameless flirt or prefer a slow-burning courtship? Alternately, Mars is your primal energy, your passion, determination, and desire. Mars shows the sexual energy as action. Venus and Mars work as a tag team; Venus is attracting what you want; Mars goes after it.
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Venus and Mars in fire signs
Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius. Fire signs want to have fun! They are straightforward in their sexual and emotional expression. If they are into you, you’ll know it, as they can be blunt, spontaneous, and self-centered. You’ve got to entertain them, get them laughing! Have a little fun, and you’ve got them. Leo is more passionate, Sagittarius, a bit erratic, while, in Aries, quickly turned on, they are quick to finish.
In earth signsTaurus, Virgo, and Capricorn. Earth signs are the slow, sensual seduction, think Marvin Gaye, sexual healing type. Love and sex is a basic need to earth types. Eat, sleep, and have sex, repeat. They're very efficient lovers, it’s instinctual, and it's their duty to satisfy you. Taurus is the most sensuous, they got it down like no other sign. Virgo is sexual once they get out of their head, being perfectionists, and they can be great lovers. Capricorn is all about control, takes sex seriously, they can last all night. Earth signs are most sensual, once they drop their guard.
Air signsGemini, Libra, and Aquarius. Air is all talk and minimal action. It is not that they don’t like sex, you’ve got get them mentally stimulated, impress them with your smarts. Sexting is hot, dirty talk even better. They do love to experiment. Gemini will talk all through sex, it will don’t be boring. Libra is into beauty, their refined attitude toward sex can be conventional, there's no messy sex. Aquarius is the most experimental, unpredictable and if you want to get kinky, they will be willing.
Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces. They are extremely sensitive, need emotional security, and want to be needed. Water signs can tune into their lover's sexual and emotional needs. They are good lovers, as long as they feel wanted and safe. They are experimental, intuitive, and make you feel emotionally close. Cancer has a strong sexual drive; they’ve got to feel wanted. Scorpio is super sexual; there is a secure emotional connection; they want to merge; it’s intense and deep. Pisces is all about sensations; they like aphrodisiacs, food, edibles, or alcohol. Sex is an escape. They are very sensual with a healthy sex drive.